Re: [VNugget] Anybody in the San Jose area?
I am someone who is just getting into BASE myself, so I can't be of any service in this area except to say that you should read the "Getting into BASE" and "My First BASE Rig" articles first. They are just one person's opinion (God knows not everyone agrees with everything which is written), but it's a good starting point.
As to skydiving and being a pilot. I was a licensed private pilot before I ever did my first skydive and I loved flying, especially my solo mountain x-country flights I've done here in Colorado (dangerous yet beautiful stuff I tell you). But in that time, I've started jumping and I hate to say it, for the time being I've given up on my flying because trying to do the two at the same time was just too darn expensive. Now I wasn't planning on becoming a ATP, so giving up my flying (for the time being) wasn't a hard decision. I'm only saying this because skydiving profoundly effected the outlook I had on my life (one can only wonder what BASE will do to me), and I thought I'd give you a heads up.
As far as getting into BASE and talking on these forums, it'll help if you don't hide your identity (people are much more likely to trust you when they know who you are) and get some skydiving experience. In fact get a lot of skydiving experience before you ever think about doing a BASE jump. The only thing in common between skydiving and BASE is gravity and the fact that we rely on a parachute to save our bacon. It's okay to research BASE, but get some skydiving experience first. Who knows, maybe skydiving will scare you enough that BASE will no longer be in the equation. Personally I am not afraid to jump out of an airplane (heck I've done it enough), but a certain fear does exist in my head with BASE (and I view this fear as a healthy fear).
By the way, congrats on your solo cross-country. I thought my solo was neat, but my first solo cross-country flight was when it dawned on me that I was in the process of becoming a real pilot.

Just don't rush into BASE and learn to be a good skydiver first. BASE jumping is not skydiving.