Re: [Dadsy] Beginner in Europe
My bad, champ. I thought the P in PM stood for private. I thought the thread here was where we learned and shared knowledge, and that it wasn't for bickering, irrelevant personal crap. I had something to say to you--and only you--so I PM'd you. Seemed like the honorable thing to do.
I assume you mean Tom at SRBA. Some of my buddies have done courses there and loved it. I hear only great things. I'm not sure what the "if you had tried at all..." comment implies. Should I have mentioned SRBA with my inquiries about Europe? Or listed every website, course, person I've talk to about BASE training over the years?
Can't afford = corner cutting. Just trying to save some loot. Maybe some courses are cheaper than others, maybe there are clever ways to keep costs down, and do people camp, share rooms, eat cheap? etc etc I'm new at this, so I was asking, here--in the beginner's forum. Seemed like a decent place to broach the subject. Yes I know I can google and compare prices etc. But I thought I might learn stuff here too, maybe make some friends, glean some wisdom from the community itself.
I'll think about the first impression I gave. You're right. I should've been more PREcise, I went for CONcise. And I guess I was just too damn goofy, plain and simple. Being a skydiver I thought maybe it was clear that I wasn't looking for free training, that I knew about the risks involved and that I understood the gravity of the commitment to BASE training. I thought the fast and loose, ignorant skydiver looking to avoid training was a rarity, not the norm. Sorry for that, maybe I should've known.
Yes the BASE jumpers I've met, and that I know, are wise, solid guys and gals. They are kind, and eager to answer questions--they are keen to pass down what others have taught them. No, they don't say "go to Europe and jump once with no training" not sure where you get that. I'm sure you know what they say; "learn all you can, get the GBOB and read it--a lot, skydive a lot and focus on your canopy skills and when you're ready--be damn sure you're ready--get solid, professional, thorough training" etc etc etc. Everything we'd expect.
Now, here's what they've never said:
me: Hey, you're a BASE jumper?
BJ: Yes
me: Kick-ass! Oh man BASE jumping fascinates me, I've been wanting to get into it for years! Say, are you busy? Can I buy you a beer and maybe we can shoot the sh*t? Man, I'd love to pick your brain, ya know, learn some sh!t--if that's cool?
BJ: Make it a beer and a shot.
me: Done!
BJ: What would you like to know?
Both: glug glug glug, aaahhh
me: I don't know, let's see... How was your first jump? Were you sh!tting your pants?
BJ: No. What else. And can I get another shot?
me: Sure. UUhhh.... What's the best way to get trained? Did you train somewhere you might recommend? Are there ways to keep costs down? Do people generally rent gear or....?
BJ: Rent gear?! Ptuah!! No, I have six custom rigs with glow in the dark snakes and lions embroidered on the... Wait, are you asking me questions because you don't already know everything about it?
me: Yeah. Is that...not...usually the case?
BJ: Then BASE is not for you. You are not worthy! Go do more research, you pathetic, lowly, skydiving, wanna-be-BASE jumper!! GRRR!! Go read The Big Booty Book of BASE 86 times and then come back to me with a dragon's head still dripping with blood, and maybe I'll answer your questions!!
me: Dude, put down the flaming sword, put your clothes back on, sit down, chill. I'm just curious. Interested.
BJ: This isn't even a micro-brew is it--pffft.
That has never happened. Pretty much every interaction I've had has been pleasant, enlightening and otherwise totally agreeable.
I also keep hearing and reading about ethics, responsibility and accountability when you're part of such a small, tight community; that you become an ambassador for the sport--and I take that sort of thing seriously, hence this long-ass post. I'm not trying to get over on anyone, I'm not trying to invade or debase (see that?) your sport. I would never tarnish or dishonor it in any way--quite the opposite.
And, finally, I realize that there are gate-keepers, people who--deservedly or not--assume the role of filtering out irresponsible undesirables trying to sneak past convention and prudence. I submit that you put me in this 'undesirable' category way too fast and with way too little information. Perhaps people with cooler heads and a little more insightfulness and thoroughness ought to stand guard? Also, I realize that it is possible that my initial post was indeed terribly worded and grossly misleading; if so, I take full responsibility and I apologize to everyone. I pledge to be more careful with what I say.
I'd be curious to hear what some of the elder statesman have to say. If you wanna chime in, I'll stand at attention, all ears. I realize I'm Mr. Nobody not-even-new-guy-yet so maybe I should just STFU. Anyways, when's the last time anyone saw Big Trouble in Little China?