Re: [stayhigh13k] Would you sell your base rig to a newbie?
stayhigh13k wrote:
Localism works like this.
When someone new comes up to the spot, and you don't want the person there anymore
for whatever reason, you
gang up with a "local" crew and make the new guy feel so uncomfortable/un-welcomed that they don't stick around.
No need to get physical, all it takes is a verbal abuse.
Who would want to keep coming back if no one says hello, instead get told to fuck off? Base jumpers are too nice to pull this shit, even though they are about to burn your spot to the ground.
This is a pretty shitty thing to do. Unless you've exhausted everything else and your "spot" is in actual danger of getting burned.
I think that it is up to the locals to NOT
push someone away like that but to
deal with them. Instead of being preachy BASE-god on high who decrees who gets to participate in *YOUR* sport and/or jump *YOUR* objects, you should ask them questions. Talk to them. In a way that exposes how little they know and how ill-equipped they are to be there.
The reason they will get hurt or killed is because they don't know how much they don't know. Just because you push them away from your sight doesn't mean they aren't going out jumping. Some people can be unreachable, but I've found that most people are very receptive if you approach them without any bias/judgement/attitude and just talk to them. Tell them "whatever reason" you don't want them there and make sure they understand it. Make an effort to make them see things from your point of view and how much they don't know. It's annoying, yes. It's not your "job", yes. But by just "making the new guy feel so un-welcomed that they don't stick around", you may very well be making the situation a lot worse.
It's far too common in BASE for everyone to talk shit about someone behind their back without ever actually talking to the person. If
you, personally, haven't said it to their face, don't say it behind their back. If
you, personally, don't have their side of the story or first-hand information regarding something they've done, then don't go spreading it around.
Unless it's the professor of adventure