Re: [hjumper33] Floating Pin Bridles Part Deux
hjumper33 wrote:
I don't even know who to specifically aim this at, but what would it take to resolve this situation?
Is there a desire for Tom to admit some kind of wrongdoing, close the base school? Apologize?
Last I checked, BASE has a lot of personal responsibility attached to it. As not good of an idea as a floating pin seems to be in retrospect, lots of jumps were done on them successfully. Shitty that someone died in showing that theyre not a good idea, but this unfortunately happens in base from time to time. Take the lesson learned, apply it to the general knowledge of base, and move on...
Ive had a whole lot of friends die in this sport. I don't blame their deaths on anyone but themselves and the choices they made...like starting to base jump.
Why all the drama and hate? What if it's neither, really. What if it just looks that way to people who don't want to believe it's altruistic and less about Tom and more about his prospective students' safety? How also if it's about people just wanting to hold Tom Aiello accountable and to the same standard he's tried to hold others in in the past 15 or so years while smearing their names to his students and in his selective moderating of this site--his perfect little marketing spot for the uninitiated.
Personally, I think he's a blight on the sport. No big surprise for any of you to hear me say it. I'd love it if he'd just stop instructing, but it's naive to think he'd do so. He has too much invested and his ego is too big. What would he do if not market himself as the best BASE instructor and school in the world? He'd go back to being the same old never-was that got run out of the NorCal scene, moved to Twin, began making a name for himself off passing acquaintances with real jumpers (or maybe just by knowing their names), feeding beer and tri-tip to anyone who'd come to his house and watch the carnage reel (again and again and again and again) in the first few minutes in the door. Sound familiar, anyone? That latter bit is the mark of a sociopath, not someone inherently concerned for anyone but himself. I mean, really...how many times can you watch and show that, Tom?
Then there's one of the favorites... How many people have heard the good old, "Well, just let me tell you... You don't want to be the 'low guy' on a jump with Dwain Weston."? Hell of a badge of honor if you spin it right to someone who wants you to teach them. What I've heard, is that he wasn't even wanted on that jump. Then he blasted-in and that was one of...three pretty significant or near fatal injuries in his first couple of years? But I guess the stories of injury and near death if told strategically add to his legend.
When you think you're being trained by the best of the best and crammed with so much information in such a short time, it must seem "comprehensive". The reality is it breeds exactly what we've seen: 20-30 jump wonders fresh out of a class heading to dangerous, low cliffs in Twin or even Moab. When you feel that you've been trained by the "best of the best", it gives you a false sense of security. Man oh man has he mastered the spin on his fuck-ups to market to the uninformed.
Back to that, think about it...to what audience does he market himself? Not BASE jumpers or their friends (unless former students); very few of you actually reading this. He carefully and methodically releases information here in a manner to make himself look really, really good to anyone not in the scene coming onto this site. He spreads negative or potentially culpable evidence across many deliberately unconnected threads, making it harder for newbies to get the full picture. That's dangerous. Because they then come into his pipeline of students looking at "such a comprehensive course" taught by a guy so willingly sharing such a mass of information that they don't know of his fallibility because he'll go to great lengths to protect his ego and brand by spreading the info out over different forums and threads over time.
Hell, gharrop nailed it in his handling and response over the three fatalities in Twin prior to this most recent one. The floating pin which gets so much attention was split into multiple topics deemed unrelated by him, separate from and with barely passing mention of his involvement in the formal incident report. Then a year later he goes on to claim SRBA is the "only entity on earth to ever issue a warning on the use of floating pins"? See how that can be leveraged to lure in a newb who doesn't know the history? And how easily do the rest of you forget? Then with Hickey, he only bowed to pressure and put up his heartfelt apology due to media, law enforcement, and attention on this forum. And even that was AFTER he removed gear from the scene, covered up details to the first-responders, and coerced witnesses to submit a false report to law enforcement.
Personally, I am disgusted that people so easily brush that one aside and don't seem to want to hold him accountable over that stunt alone, let alone his actions after. It's alleged he delayed the call to 911, even. I don't know if it's true, but he did whatever he did with time to remove the gear before the first-responders showed. I once came up on a friend who was DEAD when I got to her. No breathing, no bleeding/pulse for a long time. All I could think about was medical attention. We got her that and she's alive and well today. It disgusts me that anyone would begin thinking so selfishly about damage control.
This is the same guy who called the cops on Shane, JT, Miles for waterski jumps and made so much trouble over rail bails (allegedly calling the cops on them). If only they'd lit the skis on fire, I guess it would have been fine. It just goes on, denying his instruction on and supervision of newer jumpers making gear mods in his loft. Taking students to the local cliffs that he'd previously called dangerous for new jumpers (and to which pretty much everyone else agree, "Ummm. Yeah."). Yes, he discontinued this, but he still denies it despite former students saying otherwise on both examples.
Anyway, I'm the asshole because I'm carrying the torch now. I'm fine with that. It's been carried by many over the past 12-15 years. I'm just a different face calling him out, this time over the absolute level of his hypocrisy and danger in which he places his students. Of course, Tom says the same old thing as he's said about everyone before..."What's wrong with everyone else? I'm such a nice guy. I don't get it, must be something wrong with ALL OF THEM. Why don't they like meeee?"
How do I know this? Because a decade or so ago, I and a few of my mates were friends with Tom for a couple of years. We'd watch him squirm when he'd get called out by people we came to know as far better individuals and humans than Tom had said and wanted us to believe. I even fell for it until I got to know a lot of these people, jumping with them all over the world.
By the way, this was all about the same time when he'd talk of anyone getting 50 jumps a year as "raging"... Sounds odd coming from a guy who "quit logging after a thousand jumps" in a few years right about that time, eh? Better jumpers and instructors have forgotten more jumps than Tom has made. It takes a while, but a lot of his students seem to start picking up on this after leaving his carefully shielded course (you know, where he has everyone park by Best Buy on the other side of the bridge, so as not to meet jumpers packing by the Visitor Center). He ranks up with those guys marching around in uniforms, adorned with unit insignia and awards who've never served. "Stolen Valor" is how a few friends have so aptly put it and it fits.
I'm not jealous of Tom's SRBA BASE factory, nor invested in or interested in teaching a course of my own or pumping up the numerous friends I have who do run their own schools and instruction. I am interested in holding someone accountable to their errors and mistakes that contribute to if not actually cause loss of life or serious injury. Sadly, it has to be on Tom's little marketing site because this is the first place in which prospective students find themselves. That in and of itself is too bad. If you can't connect yourself to an experienced BASE jumper on your own DZ or in your travels and you just have to turn to the Internet and to the first person who says he'll teach you...well, that's why I'm writing this here. So, if you're not yet a jumper and you're reading this, just do yourself a favor: do your homework and exhaustively research the instructors and schools available to you before you make a decision. If some won't take you because you need more skydiving experience or other preparation, don't go with the one who says they'll take you anyway.
You asked why and there's some of it. In the end, if you take one thing away from all of this drivel, the reason for it is that I honestly believe Tom is a danger to at least some percentage of his students and therefore has an impact (pardon the pun) on the sport and every one of you. If he continues to take in low-skydive-number students, insulates them from other jumpers, craftily distributes and spreads the ashes and info after an incident to mitigate damage to himself and his school's brand, nothing good will come of it. Those are a few of the things he could change. But hey, this post will be gone soon, anyway.