Re: [hoytcinema] Any one from NEW YORK???
hoytcinema wrote:
how come it always sounds like a bunch of assholes here, no im just looking for advise and info i want to get into it more, the perrine would be the next place i go sure i can hit a weekend out there do a course get 10 jumps and where would that put me back in ny with 15 jumps with a jump course under my belt still asking you people the same damn question....but im no where near it the bridge i wanna jump, i wanna be safeish im not saying i want someone to start mentoring me or that im intitled to it like how it sounds ur trying to say but a mentor would be nice to learn from hopefully some one cool that doesnt sound pessimistic liek everyone here. we all have to start some where, i dont have a bridge at my disposal nor mad vacation hours and endless amounts of money to travel the other side of the us for a couple days, all the time, so i post here looking for guidence not to be put down if i didnt give a shit id just go do it ive scouted a couple guyeded antenas that are doable and safe but again. im not sayin i want to hit any cliffs but the next safeish object near me to hit would be an antenna possibly a smoke stack and if i want to progress and stay current that would be the only object in the area to hit, and if no one around my area wants to get together talk and help, someone to learn thats cool keep talkin the o ur new shit we should help you y? its all good whether you help or not i still will jump, but if this is a place to come for guidance? then your not making it very welcoming , but thank you for replying
I have my share of experience at failing miserably at interpersonal relations and I can absolutely guarantee the attitude coming through in your post will not get you what you are looking for.
* Be nice
* Be humble
* Show respect--for the sport, objects, jumpers, and knowledge they possess
* Show a willingness to listen and heed
* Show that you are not crazy, a dumbass, or an asshole
* Show a willingness to take it slow and learn from the ground up
* Offer to help those who you want to help you
* NEVER, EVER act like you have a sense of entitlement
BASE tends to attract people with strong personalities who are opinionated and are both honest and vocal about their opinions. Sound familiar? If jumpers come across as being assholish, then take a close look in a mirror and realize that you probably come across as assholish too.
Maybe try this. Post the following into this thread:
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Hey guys, this thread has gone to shit. Can we start over? Yes, I'm a newbie with relatively few skydives and only a handful of BD jumps. No, you don't owe me shit.
Now that we have that out of the way, I want to pursue BASE without getting maimed, arrested, or killed by doing stupid shit. Can you help a brutha out?
I'm in the New York area and willing to drive, scout, buy beer, and most importantly, shutup and listen.
All rational advice appreciated. Please PM for contact info.
Thanks in advance.
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You may have already screwed your chances for help but it's worth a try.
Good luck and be safe.
Walt