Re: [ianyapxw] Hoping for advice on which direction to take my journey
In my opinion, BASE is more about psychology than technique. I mean -- you only need half a brain to climb an antenna, jump off, trow a PS, turn and flare to land. Even easier is someone holds onto your PS. But the mental component of planning, preparation, keeping control of your feelings (which in turn influence your emotions) plays a great part because everything happens very quickly in BASE, you need to be 100% focused.
I suggest that you watch a BASE move called "The Bridge to Nowhere" (In's on YouTube, it is in Russian but has YouTube subtitles) -- they show a fatality where a jumper turned up at the exit point after a long night of partying, was talking on the phone standing on the edge and lighting a smoke flare - all the same time. He had a bad exit and died impacting a cliff.
The reason I raise this point is because as soon as your family finds out that you are involved in a sport that has an extreme chance of making you a qatro/paraplegic, a vegetable or a dead man -- they will most likely try to talk you out of it every chance the'll get. And being Asian (as I gathered from looking at your Facebook), there must be an expectation of you to look after your family as they grow old. Be prepared for the mind battle. It fucks with your brain even if they don't actively engage you with these conversations (which they will) because you yourself will be thinking about it as part of the risk-assessment that we all do. But don't count on the easy option -- most likely they will be saying something.
Managing family and relationships is the toughest part of BASE. Probably the toughest (managing injuries comes next, I believe).
Loosing your current non-jumper friends is another consideration you would be forced to make. The more you get involved with the sport, they less interesting you become to the society because your conversations will be around a totally foreign and incomprehensible subject. The good news is that friendships are made quickly in the BASE community (in general) however be prepared to loose or significantly distance your current friends. And girlfriends too, actually -- don't get me wrong, they might be Ok with watching a video of you going off a bridge at a party but when you get up at 4am to go jump that bridge and then disappear for the entire weekend to practice jumping at your local DZ, then spend all your money on gear, then instead of doing a Club Med romantic trip you go for three weeks to PB, living out of a shitty motel and jumping your ass off while she stands on the bridge either bored shitless or scared shitless -- well, that's your relationship breaker right there, mate. Logistics of jumping in Australia is even tougher so the hours are even crazier, travel distances are greater and girlfriends are angier :)
We all get into this sport for various tactical reasons but with the same strategical reason -- to mentally better our selfs. Since BASE is primarily a mind game, we all join this game to alter that part of our personality that we believe could do with improvement. We do it consciously or sub-consciously but we all do it.
Let's face it - there should be nothing fun about an interrupted suicide attempt. But being able to take control of your emotions (which we cannot control directly by the way -- they are hard-coded into our brain by millions of years of evolution, but we can take conscious actions which control our feelings which in turn invoke emotions) is very rewarding. I have mates who are in special forces and they compare it to going into a full-on assault where you have a great chance of dying in a fire fight. Other people see different parallels. Some do not see parallels at all treating it like any other sport but most people I've met in the community treat BASE is like a mental gym. Some do it more than others, but this is the reality that I see around me.
Regardless of what YOU will end up working on inside your head, BASE could be the vehicle to get you there. But vehicles can be a fun ride, a practical transport or a deadly killing machine so if you are not mentally prepared -- or at peace -- with yourself, it has the capacity to fuck you up both physically and mentally, destroy the relationship you have with your family, friends, work, study, and on and on. So, for example, if you were hoping to become more independent of your family as time goes by, then BASE could be the vehicle to get you there -- you will mature very fast and grow pretty wise, pretty quickly.