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sorry.
I never said it was anybodies fault that i have been injured. The responsibility of my heels being smashed can be only on my shoulders.
Sincerest apologies to all I have hurt please forgive me and know that im doing my best to better myself.
Im not unhappy in fact quite the opposite. Many good thing have come about for me since my dumb ass went and made the biggest mistake of my base jumping career. My family is together again after ten years of seperation and the girl of my dreams told me she loves me with all her heart. thats just the tip of the ice berg. I know you will pick this apart and ridicule go right ahead...I know in my heart that i am sorry to all of you that deserve an apology and that if you need anything i will do everything in my power to help....you know where to find me.


Sincerely,

Nick Marinkovic
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Re: [Nicholas1990] sorry.
Dude get off the internet and find a hobby or three.
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Re: [Nicholas1990] sorry.
stop apologizing, no one wants to hear your bullshit...if you want to really apologize, stop talking about how you are about to get poon from some chick that feels bad for you. we dont care about your family realizing that they fucked up and there son is a twit. if you want to apologize, change your ways, start to be humble, like really humble, not retarded humble. and stop posting on the boards.
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Re: [CebJorliss] sorry.
if no one wants to hear bullshit then why do they pick on this guy and call him out so much. He seems like he is having a tuff time and doesn't know what he should do. It sounds clear he needs help and forgiviness. I mean really what did this guy do to deserve this much shit for base jumping. I know he had an accident, that could happen to any of us, whats the real scoop?
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Re: [loverjumper] sorry.
I think you think people here are total idiots, Nick.
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Re: [loverjumper] sorry.
you registered and made your 1st post today. are you really him just wnating MORE sympathy? come on tell us the truth now!!
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Re: [Mitchpee] sorry.
Mitchpee wrote:
Dude get off the internet and find a hobby or three.

Nicholas, I hope you don't get offended by this.
Kind of tongue in the cheek post.
http://www.awba.org/
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Re: [Hellis] sorry.
Hellis wrote:
Mitchpee wrote:
Dude get off the internet and find a hobby or three.

Nicholas, I hope you don't get offended by this.
Kind of tongue in the cheek post.
http://www.awba.org/

that shits too dangerous, you're gonna give the kid some carpal tunnel or something. maybe just basket weaving?
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Re: [Nicholas1990] sorry.
The primary features of BPD are unstable interpersonal relationships, affective distress, marked impulsivity, and unstable self-image.[1]
Individuals with BPD tend to experience frequent, strong and long-lasting states of aversive tension, often triggered by perceived rejection, being alone or perceived failure.[n 3] They may show lability (changeability) between anger and anxiety or between depression and anxiety[6] and temperamental sensitivity to emotive stimuli.[7]
The negative emotional states specific to BPD fall into four categories: destructive or self-destructive feelings; extreme feelings in general; feelings of fragmentation or lack of identity; and feelings of victimization.[8]
Individuals with BPD can be very sensitive to the way others treat them, reacting strongly to perceived criticism or hurtfulness. Their feelings about others often shift from positive to negative, generally after a disappointment or perceived threat of abandonment or of losing someone. Self-image can also change rapidly from extremely positive to extremely negative. Impulsive behaviors are common, including alcohol or drug abuse, promiscuous and intense sexuality, gambling and recklessness in general.[9] Attachment studies have revealed a strong association between BPD and insecure attachment style, the most characteristic types being "unresolved", "preoccupied", and "fearful".[10] Evidence suggests that individuals with BPD, while being high in intimacy- or novelty-seeking, can be hyper-alert[11] to signs of rejection or devaluation and tend toward insecure, avoidant or ambivalent, or fearfully preoccupied patterns in relationships.[12] They tend to view the world as generally dangerous and malevolent.[11] BPD is linked to increased levels of chronic stress and conflict in romantic relationships, decreased satisfaction of romantic partners, abuse and unwanted pregnancy; these links may be general to personality disorder and subsyndromal problems.[13]
Manipulation and deceit are viewed as common features of BPD by many of those who treat the disorder as well as by the DSM-IV.[14] [15] Some mental health professionals, however, caution that an overemphasis on these traits and an overly broad definition of "manipulation" can lead to prejudicial treatment of BPD sufferers, particularly within the health care system. [16]
Suicidal or self-harming behavior is one of the core diagnostic criteria in DSM IV-TR, and management of and recovery from this can be complex and challenging.[17] The suicide rate is approximately 8 to 10 percent.[18][19] Self-injury attempts are highly common among patients and may or may not be carried out with suicidal intent.[20][21] Ongoing family interactions and associated vulnerabilities can lead to self-destructive behavior.[22] Stressful life events related to sexual abuse can be a particular trigger for suicide attempts by adolescents with BPD tendencies.[23]

International Classification of Disease
The World Health Organization's ICD-10 defines a conceptually similar disorder to borderline personality disorder called (F60.3) Emotionally unstable personality disorder. It has two subtypes described below.[24]
F60.30 Impulsive type
At least three of the following must be present, one of which must be (2):
marked tendency to act unexpectedly and without consideration of the consequences;
marked tendency to engage in quarrelsome behavior and to have conflicts with others, especially when impulsive acts are thwarted or criticized;
liability to outbursts of anger or violence, with inability to control the resulting behavioral explosions;
difficulty in maintaining any course of action that offers no immediate reward;
unstable and capricious (impulsive, whimsical) mood.