Re: [blueskies85] The Great BASE book saved my life.
True, there are lots of egos on here. There are also just as many jumpers with egos that aren't on here. I've survived this long by living with one rule, there is a time and place for everything. I jump with three rules, I can't remember where I heard this, but I heard it at the beginning of my career. Rule no.1- Err on the side of caution. Rule no.2- jump below your limits. Rule no.3- don't jump with anyone who doesn't follow these rules.
Egos can kill you. If I see someone jumping something that I know I shouldn't, and their ego comes out, I just let it go. When I see Jeb flying off some beautiful rock and fly around kicking balloons and flying thru some hole in a rock, I don't feel the need to repeat it, nor do I feel the need to follow some egotistical bastard off something local.
I know doctors with egos, lawyers, boaters, climbers, my boss, lots of people have egos. You just have to put yourself in a place that is better than they are with their egos.
Jumping is very individual, so individual that it is selfish. Outside of family and loved ones, that selfishness can save your life if you understand it. It can be a good thing (outside of family and loved ones). They may not agree. You just need to jump for yourself. Who the fuck cares what everybody else is doing? Is it going to keep you alive or make you safe by letting people with egos get to you? NO. Will those jumpers with egos make it to a thousand BASE jumps? Maybe. Maybe not. Bupt who cares? Will you being all safe and responsible keep you from going in on your next jump and feeding those egos even more? Maybe. Maybe not.
My point is, good for you deciding not to jump. I don't quiet get busting the ego balls though. This isn't the only place where egos are found. As a matter of fact, I am at work right now, I'm at a big church on the 'rich' side of town doing some techy stuff, and I have never seen so many egotistical people in my life. Doesn't want me to give up religion, I just laugh at them and their false since of security.
Peace.
I hope this was inspirational to you....