Classifieds Sale gone sideways. What to do.
Edit: took the advice I was given and posted on bj.com. After 400 views if someone can get a hold of the seller it will be done and if not I was able to find out that it's possible to get my money back. I figure that the seller is a good guy and something just went sideways. No need to keep a post with details that reference the seller.
If anything is to be learned, it's like others posted below, use escrow service or paypal.
To pikeybase: thanks for trying to help. And thank you to others who advised better ways to purchase gear online.
With that, my post count is way to high for a noob... Peace out.