Re: [TomAiello] What's safer?
TomAiello wrote:
Do you have children?
Illusion or not, my children are attached to having me around, and my death would probably have a pretty serious impact on them. I have a duty to be there for them. I chose that duty when I brought them into the world. Claiming that it's an impermanent illusion isn't going to change it.
That may seem like an illusion to you, but I guess I'm just attached to my impermanent little people. Strangely, they also appear to be attached to me.
No, I don't. But I think we aren't talking about the same things. I would also love my children, and would give up on many things, just to give them a good start in this world. But what I'm talking about is more about illusions stopping you from pursuing your goals and dreams. If you want to fly you go skydiving, if you want to feel cliffs passing by you go for proximity flying, and you do it without looking that you have x/y chance to die, unless you have reasons to do that. And same with children, if you want to raise them, and give them all the best, then you sacrifice some of those things. I'm thinking more in general, not only Skydiving and BASE. For example, I've seen so many people stuck in crappy jobs, giving up on their dreams, and waisting their potentials, just because they were afraid of what happened if they left. And that's mostly because they had illusion of safety there. But companies go bankrupt, economical crisis and layoffs happen even for the best. All I'm suggesting, is to see what you want from life, and base your decisions on that. If you want safe life, then go for it, if you want BASE, then BASE without looking at statistics, if you want to raise your kids, then do it. I'm not to great at expressing myself, but hopefully you'll see what I'm trying to say. :-)