Re: [SpeedPhreak] BASE Jump Mentoring
I would absolutely consider myself qualified to mentor. I have 1200 skydives, a little over 300 BASE jumps, and my rigger's seal, but that's not why.
I am always asking questions, always looking more closely at my own motivations and actions, and always trying to improve. Those who know me, know that I have generally been an exceptionally cautious jumper, but that I have also been dumb enough, on occasion, to be involved in some jumps that I probably should not have been. I've tried to learn as much as I could from these lessons, and I think I have become a better and safer jumper because of them.
Emotionally, I have sometimes felt like I was invincible, and sometimes have felt like life was terribly fragile. Sometimes, when I have talked about BASE jumping, I talked like it was the best thing ever. Other times, all I could tell prospective jumpers was how many friends they can expect to lose in what is sometimes a brutal activity.
Albert Camus wrote that "...we always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love--first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage." I think the same is true of BASE jumping. What Camus doesn't say, and what I believe, is that if we can make it through these stages, perhaps we can find ourselves in a place where our expectations of the ones we love are more reasonable. As a BASE jumper, I think that's where I sit. Ideally, I think that's where any mentor should sit.
All of that said, I have only ever mentored one person. At the time, he had over 500 skydives, and had been following us with a camera for years. When I got started, I must have called him a dozen times to drive 30 minutes out to a 300 foot antenna, which to this day I have not jumped. I don't think I ever heard a word of complaint about that.
I think a good mentor should bring lots of technical knowledge to the table, but should also bring a balanced attitude toward the sport.
Michael