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Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
http://www.livescience.com/culture/081219-sex-risks.html

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Men make up four-fifths of the world's skydivers and two-thirds of all rock climbers, and a new study suggests they do it for more than just the thrill.

Men may flirt with risk because they think it will help them score women.

Evolutionary psychologists have long believed that women are choosier about men than men are about women. It's not (just) because girls want to make life difficult for guys; it's because, at least historically, women have had to pick men who could provide for them and their children. This pressure forces males to work harder to prove their worth to females and out-compete other guys in the running. Social psychologists at Florida State University wondered: could risk-taking be one of the ways in which men show off their strength, ambition and confidence to potential lovers?

To find out, they asked 134 undergraduate male and female psychology students to participate in an experiment. They wanted to see whether men would take more risks if they were "in the mood" and if the men thought there were beautiful women around for them to woo.

The researchers showed students pictures of either 10 attractive or 10 unattractive faces of the opposite sex. Then they asked the subjects how sexually motivated they felt — that is, how interested they were in finding new sexual partners. One-by-one, each of the students then played a succession of 11 rigged blackjack hands; since the researchers knew what cards the participants had, and all were given the same cards, the scientists could compare how the subjects played each hand. (Asking for a "hit" indicated a risky move, since the player risked going over 21, while "staying" was considered safe.)

Finally, after the game, the researchers tested the students' memories for the faces they had seen before the game.

The men were much more likely to take blackjack risks if they were sexually motivated and had seen images of beautiful women before they played. The guys were also more likely to take risks if they saw attractive female faces and remembered them afterwards — even if they weren't looking for a new partner — perhaps because the faces made more of an impression on them and ramped up their sexual desire. The behavior of the female students, however, wasn't affected by what they felt, saw, or remembered.

"The bottom line is that risk-taking can be a tool that men use to show potential mates that they have desirable qualities such as confidence or ambition," said study co-author Michael Baker, a doctoral student in social psychology at Florida State.

Interestingly, the study found that guys who saw attractive faces but weren't sexually motivated did not take more risks than guys who saw unattractive faces. Baker speculates that guys only take risks if they stand to benefit from them, because risk-taking does come with a cost — after all, a bad skydiving or rock climbing experience could keep a guy from reproducing ever again.

"If men are not motivated to pursue a mate or there are no potential mates present, then the potential benefits of a risky display are less likely to outweigh the potential costs," Baker told LiveScience.

In other words, if a guy doesn't really want a new relationship, then his safest bet may be just to stay home and watch football.
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Re: [AndrewKarnowski] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
somebody should tell them it doesn't work for me.
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speaking of scoring women, by AK
Since we Bash the AK a lot, here is his redemption. probably my favorite Perrine bridge picture, with two people I like a lot.
Nice job AK, jealous, a lot, of the hair and the girl. Heather is awesome, and your a badass, if only because of this picture.
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Re: [Calvin19] speaking of scoring women, by AK
The thinks AK will do to prove he is not gay...
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Re: [AndrewKarnowski] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
AndrewKarnowski wrote:
Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women

I don't know about the rest of the BASE jumpers out there, but I flirt with women to score women.
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Re: [inzite] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
for some reason, women realize that base is crazy and their instincts tell them not to fuck crazy people.
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Not always. Cool
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Re: [Calvin19] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Calvin19 wrote:
Not always. Cool

Someone got laid last night, eh?
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Re: [Calvin19] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
now that base is covered favorably in the media such as movies, it's a lot cooler to women. before anyone knew what it was, it was considered way uncool by women.
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
I have to imagine that even 40 years ago, some women had a positive view of innovative people like BASE jumpers, bungee jumpers, etc besides, any girl that thinks BASE is crazy (as in a suicide Russian-roulette death-obsessed sport) is not worth it and do not deserve the honor of [sexual fellatio/ingestion act] me.
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
I agree, most women don't want to be with a guy they think may die tomorrow. BASE jumping is still thought to be a little on the stupid side by most people, including myself sometimes. Crazy
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
not going to lie, its worked for me. girls tend to think it is crazy and they like it, for a bit. then it gets old and they don't think its that cool and they don't want to be with someone who may get injured/dead. i can see it in their eyes so I'm done with them anyway, just as they are done with me. NEXT!
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Re: [nicrussell] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Well, female BASE jumpers have their own relationship issues. Most non-BASE jumping guys are intimidated by female BASE jumpers...mostly because they don't have the balls to do it.

Wink
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Re: [nicrussell] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
 
Randy Harrison used to say "yeah, she fell in love with me because I based jump. yeah, she left me because I based jumped."
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Shows that women haven't changed that much. And Neither have we Smile
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Re: [angelap] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Oh I can see that. Men like a little crazy in their women (at least me), you know the crazy you can see in their eyes. But a full blown base jumper chica, might be a little intimidating.
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Re: [angelap] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
The problem with female BASE jumpers is, ..... there aren't enough of them Unsure
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Re: [460] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
460 wrote:
Randy Harrison used to say "yeah, she fell in love with me because I based jump. yeah, she left me because I based jumped."

depends on how many room take base in your life.
womens come and go....so why must she know all details in our lives?
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Re: [AndrewKarnowski] Men Flirt with Risk to Score Women
Do they ever do studies that show people take risks and do crazy shit because they like to and think it's cool in and of itself? What's with all these Freudian motives everyone has to have all the time?

Besides, anyone can die tomorrow. Wink