Re: [TomAiello] Regarding abortion, I am a...
TomAiello wrote:
By making up standards about whether they can care for themselves, I think you're showing an ignorance of child raising, and also of medical technology. Care for themselves how? Survive how? In a state of the art NICU? Or in their own home, with no adult supervision? There's obviously a lot of grey area there. Drawing a bright line isn't going to work, simply because the process of a child growing to self sufficiency is so complex and lengthy.
Of course I'm ignorant about child raising, I've never done it.

But I'm not talking about raising a child here, or when a child can care for itself. I'm talking
strictly about when a fetus can be physically disentangled from the mother and still survive. So lets talk about that.
Like you said, society has to determine when a fetus/baby gets the right to be cared for by somebody. At one extreme, some pro-lifers say they get that right as soon as the sperm fuses with the egg, even in a petri dish. At the other extreme, some would say at birth.
I am merely suggesting, as a point of discussion, using about the time the fetus is physically capable of survival outside the womb (and therefore any qualified adult could care for it, not just the biological mother... see where I'm going with this yet?). This could theoretically happen around 23-24 weeks gestation when the surface area of the lung develops the ability to exchange gas effectively. This is one of the limiting factors in preemie survivability, and I dont know of any medical technology that can substiture for a placenta. There are some exceptions, but before that age, the preemie wont even survive in a NICU because their lungs wont be able to perform gas exchange.
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To address some of your other points...
TomAilello wrote:
my second daughter is 3 months old. She is physically incapable of survival without, in your words "sucking the flesh" of my wife. She probably won't eat solid foods for another 3 or 4 months, and is breastfeeding exclusively.
Not true. Your 3 month old is dependent on SOMEBODY to survive, but not necessarily any single specific person. And she physically could survive on formula. It is simply your choice as parents to nurture her that way. My point is merely that she doesn't need a womb anymore.
TomAiello wrote:
Do you believe that my wife still maintains a right to abandon our daughter, because the child is fully dependent on her for survival?
Please reference my previous statement:
Colm wrote:
At some point, you say, ok, the guardian is committed to caring for this kid or they're guilty of criminal neglect/endangerment.
Which would apply in the case of your daughter, obviously. So, to answer your question in a general sense, no.
You and I are basically saying the same thing: at some point, a embryo/fetus/baby becomes
TomAiello wrote:
..."human" in the sense of having the right to be cared for.
I'm just not saying anything yet about who it is who has the duty to care for them.
TomAiello wrote:
Adoption is a process whereby parental rights and obligations are passed on to another person. Saying that a mother can "abandon" a child by offering it for adoption is a mis-use of the term "abandon." The child would still have a parent (or parents) to care for it.
Then we have a semantic disagreement, not a substantial one.