Re: [NZflygirl] friends list
Hey,
I believe we've fixed the bug that enabled user to add someone twice to their list. Let me know if you see that again.
As for Friends lists being symmetric - that's not necessarily the case. If you change the "Allow anyone to add you as a friend?" option under
Settings from "No" to "Yes" (which is what you have done) then users will be able to add you to their friends list without you getting a request from them to do so, and they will not be added to your list. Keep that setting on "No" if you want to OK friend invites
Another way for the lists to become asymmetric is if someone has gone through the normal invite process, you got added to each other's lists and either of the users decide to remove the other person from his/her list. The removed users list will not be affected.