Re: [Bigwallmaster] when are you gonna quit?
My wife (who was still my girlfriend and pregnant at the time) had a major freak out the day i received my Perigee Pro through the post. I had spoken about it, made my family aware of what i was getting into, but it seems that seeing the rig was when it hit home. It was a while before things calmed down but i didn't quit.
You see, six months before this my sister had died in a skydiving accident. I was the first one to find her in a field near the landing area. My wife at first wanted nothing to to with skydiving never mind base jumping. On my side, I knew quitting skydiving would make no difference and only God could help me handle the pain and shock.
I may be a bit of a tree hugger when it comes to base, but the whole walk up the mountain thing is as much part of it as the jump. Once in a while, when life just gets too much, a little solo off the E does a world of good. My wife has come to understand that despite the fact that she still doesn't like it.
So her and i have the understanding that we both need our space. Otherwise, you end up getting on each others case, give up things you don't really want to give up and the relationship turns sower.
Giving up base because you think it will help a relationship is not a good solution in my opinion. LIke with everything it's a balance of give and take.
As for kids, our little 3 year old goes wild everytime she sees footage, jumps off the arm of the couch on to the couch in a perfect arch... I must admit i do have reservations but i would not be able to or allowed to keep her or my step daughter from skydiving or base jumping if that's what they want to do.
If anything, having kids probably makes one a little more conservative in their approach. And that's a good thing for base right?
At this stage, I get so much at every level from every single base jump that it is difficult to imagine ever quitting.