Re: [vandev] Legal or illegal?
I think you stated your question fine, but I didn't answer very clearly. Let me know if I'm still way off the mark.
Online discussion tends to focus on your beliefs. But in real life, what's usually way more important is how you represent your beliefs.
If we're standing at the exit point and you won't stop telling me how you don't really like this jump as much as some other jump, then I'm likely to avoid sharing the exit point with you in the future. It's nothing personal, just that when I'm doing one thing I like to enjoy what I'm doing, not hear it compared to everything else I could be doing. Now, if this was the case, I hope you find someone who does like to share those comparisons with you. I'm just not that person.
On the other hand, if we're standing on a high cliff and I'm busting my gut because you just made some crazy-ass remark, it doesn't bother me if you only like to jump high cliffs. It's a good thing to know, because I won't wake you up at one in the morning to see if you want to jump a crane with me. But I'll probably give you a shout next time I'm heading to a high cliff.
Michael