Re: [BlueSBDeath] My Daughter wants to BASE jump
I had a very interesting learning experience a number of years ago that may help you out.
I trvelled Europe in 1998 and wanted to meet ZOO (JM - a very well known BASE jumper in France). When I came to his house he was outside with his 17yo son inspecting a paraglider. Apparently he had landed in a tree earlier that day.
Later I asked Zoo about his children and BASE jumping. At the time, Zoo had about 1000 BASE jumps and no real accidents. Zoo told me that his son had not made a BASE jump at that stage. He also said that his son was a bit over confident in some respects and had a typical youthful sense of immortality. He would not let his son do any BASE jumps until he showed maturity, respect, and a total understanding of the sport.
He said he would "kill his son" if he caught him jumping before Zoo gave permission. His son told me later that he had not jumped and will not go against his fathers will because he was very passionate about the right attitude in BASE jumping.
Zoo was about 40yo at the time and his family lived near Chamonix. I went to make a jump with him at one of the local sites. We looked over the edge for a few minutes and Zoo said "No, I will not make a jump here today. It is not right", Being Australian, I looked over the edge and wondered what the hell he was on about. THe conditions looked fine to me. Zoo replied that if he did not feel 110% confident in his equipment, his mental state, his physical state, and in the prevailing conditions, he would not jump. Don't forget that he had about 1000 jumps in 1998 - which was rare at the time.
We walked away to jump another day.
I have great respect for Zoo. He is an excellent practioner of the sport, skilled, mild mannered & humble, and an all round nice guy.
I learned a lot about the respect one should have for the sport in those few days with him. It is something all people should learn.
So, if your daughter has the right attitude, etc. Let her go. If not??????????????
THe only flip side is BASE education could be like sex education. You are damned if you do, and damned if you don't. If you ban her from the sport, will she go do it anyway under poorer learning conditions. Or will she be better off with your support and encouragement in going about it the right way.
p.s. Show her the JJ training tapes, that gives it a sense of reality!!!!!!!
p.s.s. my kids are 1.5 and 3.5 - I am not lookign forward to the day when they want to behave like me...
Stay Safe
Good Luck - and I really mean that.
Have Fun
Tom